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Quotes To Live By

Quote #76: Renee’ Deckrow

" "Hello, I'm Renee Deckrow, the heart behind Live Oak Coffeehouse & Roastery. I'm also a photographer, a storyteller, an advocate for community, and an active member of the Midland Area Wellbeing Coalition. One quote that has profoundly shaped my outlook is by Maya Angelou: “I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” This principle, highlighting the indelible mark of our emotional footprint on others, guides me in my various roles—be it as a mother, wife, friend, daughter, neighbor, or entrepreneur. At the very core of my endeavors lies a commitment to ensuring that everyone feels seen, heard, and loved. Our coffeehouse embodies this commitment, drawing inspiration from Angelou's wisdom. In a world where interactions often feel transient and superficial, we prioritize genuine connections and make everyone feel recognized and appreciated. My vision for every guest, whether a returning patron or a newcomer, goes beyond providing excellent coffee. I aim to create an environment that radiates warmth and acceptance, making every visitor feel valued. This commitment stems from a deep-seated belief in the intrinsic worth of each person. Angelou's words inspire me to focus less on personal achievement and perfection in communication and more on the impact of our interactions on others. I hope to leave everyone feeling like they are the most important person in the room after any exchange. This philosophy has transformed Live Oak Coffeehouse into more than just a business—it's a thriving hub of community and belonging. Through my photography, I've been able to showcase the stories and essence of others, emphasizing that individuals should be remembered not just for what they do but for the unique energy & beauty they bring to the world. Angelou's message encourages us to lead with empathy and kindness, aiming to make a lasting, positive impression on the emotions of others—a legacy truly worth pursuing. As someone deeply invested in the transformative potential of genuine connection, I adopt this ethos not just in my professional life but as a guiding light in all I do. I strive to live by these values each day. How does this quote motivate you to prioritize love and understanding in your interactions? This reflection contributes to the Midland Area Wellbeing Coalition's Quotes to Live By Series. With grace & gratitude, Renee'"

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